I'm seeing where you're coming from for the most part but just wanted to say hi there, autistic over here, having happy fun consensual sex since the age of 17. Have also been forced into non-consensual sex, just as many non-autistics have, and am clearly capable of making the distinction. Autism =/= inability to make an informed decision about whether or not to consent to sex, and it certainly does not equal an inability to feel and reciprocate love.