I've found out that a few people not only were gossiping about me, but spreading all sorts of crap about me, turning people who don't know me, against me.
And, not one of them has dared say anything to my face.
Yes, this has hurt, especially since it's lies and quite damaging.
So, my question is: how does one say anything to prove that the gossip was untrue or that there was another side to the story?
(Over the years, I try not to gossip, and I try not to spread lies about anyone. If I hear that someone is awful, I do try to find out if this is true for myself before believing it 100%)
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And, not one of them has dared say anything to my face.
Yes, this has hurt, especially since it's lies and quite damaging.
So, my question is: how does one say anything to prove that the gossip was untrue or that there was another side to the story?
(Over the years, I try not to gossip, and I try not to spread lies about anyone. If I hear that someone is awful, I do try to find out if this is true for myself before believing it 100%)