Phrases which, however 'nicely' said will pretty much always engender rage, frustration or cycnisim in me #1
No disrespect.
Is it me, or does this actually mean 'with the HUGEST amount of disrespect, and not a fair amount of loathing...'
DO you have any phrases which will always tick your 'well, fuck YOU' box?
No disrespect.
Is it me, or does this actually mean 'with the HUGEST amount of disrespect, and not a fair amount of loathing...'
DO you have any phrases which will always tick your 'well, fuck YOU' box?
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:05 pm (UTC)"I don't mean to be racist/sexist/any other Ist but..." usually prefaces something so extremely Ist that it makes your eyes come out on stalks.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:09 pm (UTC)Then if you get upset they tell you that you're too sensitive.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:14 pm (UTC)then don't EFFING say it!!!!
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:16 pm (UTC)'ere, are you B Movieing tomorrow? 4th Birthday and all that.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:09 pm (UTC)If you know me, you know I most certainly am not a darling!!
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:16 pm (UTC)especially if it follows 'that's not my problem'....
unrelated - that icon is AWESOME!!!!
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:57 pm (UTC)Which reminds me, I need to acquire supplies to make some 'Harri-clavas'...
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:10 pm (UTC)How can one promise a future reaction when you've NO idea what the person is about to say, and - BECAUSE they've prefaced it with this - are pretty sure you're going to be upset about it, whatever it is.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:17 pm (UTC)This is EVEN MORE ANNOYING when the thing they tell you *doesn't* upset you at all, and they've assumed it will, and they react to you as if you are upset, when you're not!!! arrghhh!!!
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:13 pm (UTC)To me it negates everything that you said prior.
"I really would like to be with you...but..."
"I think you are a great person...but..."
"we meant to be on time...but..."
It's the way people try to soften shit.
I hate it and try never to use it. (now you will call me on it whenever I do
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:16 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:19 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:34 pm (UTC)I really do have the worlds worst vocabulary.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:16 pm (UTC)Not always, no.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:21 pm (UTC)no you don't, you WANT to say it. you don't HAVE to say it. If you HAD to say it, you wouls have SAID it. And if you were SORRY about it, you wouldn't SAY it....
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:40 pm (UTC)I also hate people who say really unpleasant stuff and tell you "I'm only saying this because I care" or some other variant. NO, bitch, if you CARED, you'd SHUT UP, or find a less cacky way to say whatever it is you clearly just took great pleasure in saying to me.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:59 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:34 pm (UTC)Anything along the 'I don't mean to be [insert character flaw here], but...' lines gets on my goat, although not as much as 'Well, AS someone who knows far about the subject than you, I'm going to refuse to admit you even have a right to an opinion'.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:34 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 04:36 pm (UTC)Why are you singling out this specific occasion to be honest? Presumably because you're an untrustworthy lying git/manager the rest of the time.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:37 pm (UTC)It's like some people get really upset if you call them ignorant - all it means is they lack information, not that they're stupid or prejudiced or whatever. Some people just love to take offence at every little thing, tho'.
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Date: 2006-09-07 04:54 pm (UTC)always pisses me off.
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Date: 2006-09-07 05:01 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 05:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 10:04 pm (UTC)It actually aggravates me, so that i become not-calm, thus proving their comment...
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Date: 2006-09-07 05:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-09-07 05:15 pm (UTC)"It's not that hard"
said to me by my boss when asking for help, guaranteed to get me mad!! Although he is a tech genius and has trouble understanding we're not all genii!
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Date: 2006-09-07 10:06 pm (UTC)Other annoying openers
Date: 2006-09-07 07:32 pm (UTC)I think if I keep going this could be a very long reply...
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Date: 2006-09-07 08:59 pm (UTC)I BET you don't understand what I'm saying - mostly because you haven't been listening, you have been nodding and smiling smugly whilst thinking over what you're going to say!
:)
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Date: 2006-09-07 11:25 pm (UTC)Usually guarantees that the following will in fact be unmitigated drivel, not whittled down to the basics AT ALL!!!!!
Classic irritating things that can be said to piss ME off are:
'Look, it'll do'
'Just be satisfied with it will you?'
'Be quiet'
But then these tend to say more about me as a person than anythign else.
Oh, and whilst I'm here,: come to b-movie come to b-movie come to b-movie come to b-movie come to b-movie come to b-movie (you get the idea).
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Date: 2006-09-08 09:20 am (UTC)Maybe x